"SHE" deserves to be loved
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Let’s talk
about love.
Last few
days ago, I and one of my closest friends had bonding time.
We’ve talked
about lots of things like family issues, church concerns, things we do want to
have, places we do want to go, and of course our Love(less) life.
Hahaha :D
She is 25
years young and I am 21 but we do have the same questions pertaining to love. I
know some of you girls out there and even some boys have questions about
“LOVE”. Like, when can we meet our
beloved prince? Followed by Where, Why, How, and Who? :D But these questions
aren’t the one that makes me think of. It’s this:
“Is there a
man able to fall in love with a woman who has lots of responsibilities and
priorities?”
I’ll
elaborate it for you. For example, I am 21 years old eldest to my “SIX” siblings
and has a big responsibility of taking good care of them physically,
emotionally, spiritually, and financially. And I know, based on my experience
and observations that ‘most of’ men out there are not into taking risks loving
a woman who divides herself to many tasks. A man wants to have quality time to
her beloved especially when they are married. Not being selfish but a man who
needs a woman that would help him (Genesis 2:18)
Back to my
question, I’d ask myself also. If I were a man, am I able to fall in love with woman
who has lots of responsibilities and priorities? My answer is this:
“Yes.
Because, in loving a person you should know first what is your purpose of
loving her. Is it because she is beautiful, caring, jolly, understandable, and
lovable? (I think that’s me. Hahaha. Just JOKING) If this is your answer
then you are a purposeless lover. You only love for you to enjoy and to be
happy. Did you know that loving her is like promising her to be married? Loving
her is your first and last (or should I say never ending) step entering
into marriage also.”
Read this:
I, (Bride/Groom), take you (Groom/Bride), to be my (wife/husband), to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish; from this day forward until death do us part.
This is one
of the most famous wedding vows. It says there “even death do us part” so why
does her responsibilities taking you apart from loving her? Could
responsibility kill you? Of course not but it would rather help you. Being
responsible is a good thing.
I don’t know
if these make sense but I think a good woman deserves to be loved.
That’s all!
Thank you.
:D
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you will be love for sure!
ReplyDeleteAmen. I believe. :D
ReplyDeleteKung ganyan ang situation, ang dapat na tanong ke prince eh "Are you man enough to take the challenge?"...
ReplyDeleteand ke Princess naman sa ganyang responsibility, "are still willing to add another one?"
samahan mo pa ng LDR, Walang magagawa ang lalaki kung ayaw ng babae.. kaya nga dapat subjected and babae sa lalaki, di ba?
How about You Ereb, are you still willing to add one?
for me lovelife or relationship is not just about responsibility.. It is a commitment..
Deleteand sa tanong mo Shal! o alam kung ikaw yan! haha.
yes, I am willing to add one "if" the time is right.
coz if i love that one, hindi siya magiging pabigat sakin.
and I'd be happy kasi may makakasama na ako sa lahat ng gagawin ko. :)
really?.. sige kung kaya mo eh di go for it. just remember there is only one perfect person and perfect time... Bless you Ereb =)
Deleteyes.. kaya nga until now naghihintay diba? kasi wala pa yung only one person and perfect time. :)
DeleteBaka anjan na di mo lang alam na siya yun.. hahaha^^ Busy ka kasi sa mga reponsibilities mo eh.. hahahah
Deletebaka nga..
Deletepero sana magsabi siya kung anjan na nga.. hindi kasi ako manghuhula. haha
Malay mo di kahit sya d pa sure... or baka pg nagsabi sya eh di mo sya bigyan ng chance... dami mo kasi responsibily eh. Hahaha
Deleteit's a matter of taking risk and letting God's will to intervene. :) Sabi ko nga responsibility must not hinder anything and everything.
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